Howler Karma, I too played Invention #8 like that at about the same age. I gave up piano around the same time too. My parents were not supportive, totally checked out, so I quit to take up drums. I worked all summer to buy my first kit and taught myself to play. I was very self conscious about playing and very perfectionistic. I totally get where your daughter is at, but maybe a conscious break might be healthy and she could just mess around for a while and try again in 6 months or a year. Maybe she needs a drum kit??
Playing drums was very liberating for me and provided a healthy social outlet. I started a band at 16 and continuing playing off and on until I had my now 6 year old DS. I met a lot of really amazing people, learned a lot and had so many rich experiences. Or maybe electric guitar?
Also, I am quite self conscious playing for other people too. Hiding behind a drum kit was a way for me to play out, really get into the music, but feel more secure.
Playing piano can be a very solitary journey. My son just started a few months ago and is already playing Bach Minuets and has his first Piano Exam (his idea!) in a couple of months. He's very passionate about it so I think we are beginning a very interesting journey! He also messes around on drums and electric guitar. Due to my past I am hoping that keeping music open ended for him he won't get stuck like I did. His piano teacher also plays keyboards in two national touring bands. Has your DD thought of playing keyboards in a friends band or starting her own? It might freshen it up for her and take a little of the pressure off! And I love your idea of recording!
Good luck to her and you!
