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In terms of communication...how often would I like to be contacted? I don't really know, honestly. Ever? Lol.
Some may say this is what you experienced?

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once a month would be sufficient.
You may wish to suggest this.

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Just SOMETHING so I have any inkling what my child/how my child is doing.
Socially? Academically?

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I'm just kind of bewildered...and disappointed.
It is important to manage expectations. This is part of choosing a school: learning in advance what their policies and practices are, asking questions on points which are important to the student/parent(s)/family. Some may say that a parent being disappointed because one imagined/hoped for something that apparently was not offered or agreed upon, may be quite unfair to the teacher/school. It would be a different situation if the teacher/school had advertised or agreed upon something and then had not delivered. In general teachers/schools uniformly do what serves most of their pupils, and arrangements need to be made and expectations managed for something out of the norm. With your child being almost 4, there are many more years of school remaining... you may wish to read up on advocacy so you are best able to assist your child throughout the next decade or so.