I think that I enjoy it more, though-- because it's more likely to be time spent directly with my DD, either enriching things, helping her to find appropriate enrichment for herself, or coaching her to understand herself better, to make good advocacy moves, etc.

Far less frustrating to spend that kind of time with one's own HG+ child than trying to act as a go-between for the entire world.

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.