Ds6 is generally more intense and sensitive but generally a people pleaser. He had one time in preschool that he lost it but the teacher watching said hid best friend and another kid were freezing him out and he tried really hard first and was really upset afterwards. He had a couple of incidents in his first year of school which were due to him misunderstanding the other kid's game rules. Ds4 is absolutely charming and knows it - except for when he is a horror.