Honestly, I am not even 100% sure yet if DS6 is GT. But, my gut feeling is strong to believe he is. Just from reading tons of other posts here, I was like, "That's my DS6!" But, I guess I won't know for sure until I have the tests done.
Not to be contrary...but I suspect you *are* sure!
You're just second-guessing your gut. Tests are merely one more bit of evidence that a child is HG+, but tests are no more valid than what you see and feel about your child. They're just the one that's most acceptable to schools and often the one that we parents with GT denial can't deny (no matter how hard we try!).
Basically, if you see your kids in the descriptions here, then you're in the right place!
And yes, sensitivity and perfectionism are two hallmarks of GTness. Perfectionism tends to be reduced when a child is challenged regularly by his/her work. Sports and music are two other ways to challenge a child who is used to being perfect at everything.
Have you found any books on GTness yet? You might look into Deborah Ruf and Miraca Gross's books, just off the top of my head. They might help you.
