I agreed with Cathy�s well considered points! I am curious as to whether they have to consider outside testing. In my daughter�s case, we had two more highly credentialed experts (as compared to the school psych) whose evaluations were in disagreement with the school team. They just ignored it. Three years later, we had a very comprehensive assessment which likewise completely disputed the school�s position. I�d bet that it wouldn�t have been factored either.

I�m so sorry that this meeting went the way it did.

We also had some pretty significant frustrations several years ago when my daughter attended public school. Our school service psychologist and speech therapist, in particular, acted as if the notion that a gifted child could also have a learning disability was contradictory. I couldn�t decide whether they were stupid or unscrupulous. Our daughter�s written evaluation contained many references to our �dissatisfaction� with her performance, which actually didn�t make a bit of sense as she earned over 100% (extra credit) in every subject.

We got the same line from my son�s principle this past year when we elevated an outrageous action taken by a teacher. The principle lived up to a well known reputation for failure to address parents� concerns by insinuating that we were complaining because we were disappointed in our son (as opposed to his performance). I actually felt physically ill for several weeks due to his inept response.

Between our local public system and our singular Catholic school there were seemingly no other options available. As is often the case with opportunities, they came all at once, and after quite an absence. Just this spring, we received various offers from other schools outside of our immediate township to accommodate our son. We accepted one which will require a huge commitment of my time and gas money while also limiting my part time career opportunities. Other than the distance and accompanying issues, I believe it will be a great fit for ds.

While I was in your shoes over the last five years, a few people assured me that we would find a way eventually. At the time, I believed they were giving me vacuous assurance, but it seems they may have been right.

Keep your head up and stick to your guns. I wish you the best.