BTDT. Give the impression that you trust them and gave them space. Start with now that you've had a chance to implement the acceleration we discussed at our meeting of x date, can you tell me how it is working?
This will give them a chance to quick do something if they forgot, or to answer you if they are doing OK. It gives them the benefit of the doubt, even if your dd has told you and you already know nothing is happening. If you don't get an answer to this one, your next email should be requesting another meeting.
You aren't "that parent" if you are asking for information. It's just communication.
Great idea!!!! Just communication! Brilliant indeed!
Thanks for the advice to all of you. Being new to this it's hard to know how much space to give them. Your previous experiences and advice is helpful!
Thank you!
