...Part of the issue is asyncronity, part of it is he doesn't fit the precocious stereotype one sees in the news...
I feel this is probably our issue and why I'm not so confident. DD is definitely asynchronous. There is not a doubt in my mind about that. I have questioned many things that relate to asynchronous without answers from those such as Peds. I would hear it wasn't typical but she'll outgrow her intensities etc. DD is also not the idea I have in my head of the precocious stereotype as you mentioned. Thus leading to me questioning if I'm seeing this all correctly.
