My DS 7 has writing issues - not exactly dysgraphia but elements of - and he noticed the differences between what he could do and what the other kids were doing so we had to talk about it. He is in a gifted school and they and we emphasize how everyone has something they are good at and something that is challenging, even if you can't always see what those challenges are. I am dyslexic and began talking more about my issues as well. I second MoN regarding learning at the intellectual level while also remediating the issue. And hopefully trying to not make it always about what you can't do.
Does your DD have something she is really interested in? For my DS it's science and we make sure he has access to opportunities and materials at the level he is. For the most part that is outside of school via books, video, taking him to talks etc. if she is having trouble with reading but likes more advanced materials - great courses videos or books on tape is a great way to go.
And definitely ask questions here as they come up, and do some searches or read back in the 2e section, there is a lot of good stuff in there! I know the parents here have really helped me with how to talk to the school and other things that were really useful.
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