DeeDee-
Thanks for your thoughts! This is definitely not my area of expertise; and I feel like everyone has some differing opinion. Makes it confusing. I already have the developmental optometrist appt. they were so helpful and nice that I want the eval either way. As far as neuropsychologist was concerned, she thought we wouldn't get school help with OT, because right now he is in "normal range".
Good advice about describing weaknesses. Neuropsychologist suggested we say that "we" will work on getting handwriting up to 2nd level.
I will look into that book too. Thanks! (Probably should have been studying it in preparation; yet I kept doubting what I thought. Now I know.)