Thank you everyone for our insights. Lots to digest and ponder. I'll try to glean more information from DD, as well as her teacher. Right now I don't have a good picture of what she's doing in school, to be honest. She doesn't share much at all and she gets no homework. But she is indeed a perfectionist, that much is clear.

I'll also try to get more info re: her testing. Her school tested her and all we were given was her PRI, VCI and her GAI.

Thanks all. This is a whole new world for us and we want to make good decisions for our DD.
Rachel