I have hopes that I will be there someday... Hopefully before my dd starts college.

I informed my XH that I would no longer try to persuade him in regards to my dd's education. I would simply inform him of the decisions I was making and he could either like it or not. I wasn't going to loose any sleep over it. His response was to inform me that he was attending my dd's open house (he did not attend last year to protest her being there).

Maybe all I had to do was use some reverse psychology from the beginning crazy