THANKS so much for your post - it gives my husband and I hope - I can't imagine the rollercoaster you all have been through and the fact that educators are SO quick to blame parenting skills or the behavior of the child!!! I am so worried about my 5 year old who is starting to show some of the same frustration levels at school and we hear a lot of "it's just a discipline problem" comment...but thankfully we do have a handful of professionals who have seen him at his best and realize that he is just a super smart little kid who is trying his hardest to figure out where/how he fits into the world! Thanks for giving us hope!!!