My heart feels for her. The way you described how she feels about school is exactly how I felt just before my Mother took me out to homeschool me. After I moved to the third grade my G&T programs were cut from three to one time a week and I had a terrible teacher who refused to give me any additional work and would tell me to just be quiet and put my head down until the rest of the class was finished. I felt like I was being punished. I used to cry or pretend to be sick because I was so unhappy going to school. I don't have advice (I just have a toddler) but my heart goes out to your little girl, and I hope you come to a solution that makes her happy about school!