I am pretty sure you can pay tuition for your kid to go to Haddonfield (at least for middle and high?). I don't know how it compares to Friends--but it may be possible that paying tuition for the public would be more likely to give your kid some peers just because there is a larger pool of kids, and I would bet at least a few in each grade that are >moderately gifted. Or it might make sense for elementary to do Friends if and then switch in middle. Anyway, def. something to consider for the future if you are going to stick around that area. Good luck!