I feel like a first-time parent whilst PTing my second, DD2.2. I joined this forum due to our suspicion that DS5 is GT. I have no real perspective on 'normal' PTing because my DS literally trained in a weekend at 2.4years. He had maybe three accidents EVER and trained nighttime and naptime fully at the same time. My perspective is skewed in a big way!
We started PTing DD2 two weeks ago. She goes on the potty like a champ...her motor control is amazing. She wakes up dry at nap and night, so
I feel her bladder control is mature. If we took her to the potty every 20-30 minutes we would be fine. However, she NEVER tells us she needs to go. Even when she's a potty-dancing fool, she denies it. She gets to play with fun little toys on the potty...we stopped doing treats.
Is it unrealistic that she should be self-leading already? She is very verbally advanced with excellent gross and fine motor control...and she's a very agreeable child most of the time.