This is my first post. I am trying to decide if I should enroll my son in preschool. I would really appreciate some opinions on this matter.

My son turned 3 on 3/16.� I have taken him to various mommy and me classes since he was about six months (never more than two per "semester").� We have done the Little Gym, music and swimming.� I have also taken him to Spanish class since he was 12 months.� I supplement by reading to him in Spanish, and we watch the Whistlefritz DVDs (which he loves).� This is the only class that has been constant.� We go to the science museum, library, etc. regularly.� (I am a SAHM.)

I have never really "pushed" him academically.� I have simply tried to expose him to things, and have let his interests guide our activities.� Currently, he:

*� Recognizes lowercase and uppercase letters
*� Knows the sounds the letters make
*� Spells simple words like "cat" and "dog"--some I know he has memorized, but he does have the ability to sound out short words and spell them
*. Has memorized close to 50 sight words
*� Recognizes and recites numbers to 20
*� Counts up to 15 items accurately
*� Finishes patterns
* Completes 48 piece puzzles by himself


This fall, I would like for him to start a part-time preschool program approximately 9 hours per week.� The school that I like has a Reggio/Montessori approach, and they offer Spanish and Music as part of their regular program.� The Spanish teacher is a native speaker and the music teacher is Suzuki trained. All teachers and assistants in the preschool are Montessori certified.

He would be in a classroom with children ages 2 1/2 to 4 1/2.� I have toured the school, and I think it is a wonderful program and a beautiful facility.� I told the teachers that I believe my son is on the brink of reading, and they assured me that other children in the class are reading, and they encourage each child according to their abilities.

My husband is reluctant because he believes he will be around children who may not be as advanced in some aspects, and therefore, may be complacent or more reluctant to continue learning at his current speed/ability.� DH thinks I should continue with him at home, and continue to take him to separate classes (although now that he is 3, he will be able to go to the class and I can wait at the facility).� I am not sure if I am explaining his view thoroughly, but that is the gist.� I would love to hear� some opinions on this.

Thank you.