I don't really know where to put this, but I feel like finally being on the same page with DH about DS2 is a small victory for our family. DH just had his "our son sure was/is different" aha! moment this week. We were hanging out with another family with a young child the other day and later DH told me, "That was more what I imagined when I thought of having kids. I expected it to be more like that."

It's as if we bought tickets for the merry-go-round but ended up on an endless roller coaster instead. DH had his eyes closed and was trying to convince himself that we were actually on the merry-go-round even though it didn't feel like it. It's nice for him to finally realize that we are on a different ride all together.