I would pull him out and homeschool. Can you find a group setting where he can socialize and play, without the academics? Maybe some sort of class or group?
All this angst is totally unnecessary, especially since he is so young. You need time for yourself, too, though. I think a nice middle ground would be some sort of group or activity he can be dropped off at.
Is he pretty independent when he plays by himself all day?
I think *you* should find a way to get some alone time to relax , too, if you have to give up the mornings. You deserve that.
