Purpleviolin,
someone here told me this - when you do something well with your child - like controling how you talk to DC, give yourself some praise, this is a process for both parent and child to develop into. This positive reinforcement help you make progress.

Sometimes my slow process of learning to do something better has helped me to understand that it's hard for kids to do certain behavors.

Thank you for sharing, you helped me remeber this. hang in there.

Last edited by onthegomom; 12/14/11 07:40 AM.