I don't personally think it would be bad! Occationally he will use them, but generally he's just not interested in them. I just mean its harder work to try to find stuff he will do willingly than to simply say "its school time. Do this page." I don't actually think that works for anyone, btw, thats just my fantasy wink

I agree it shouldn't be all sneaky.

I think unschooling can be used for a wide range of things, some of which are mutually exclusive.