Our issue is DH gets into battle w/DS with sports. DH really could help him, as he is talented in this area, but DH needs help with approach. DH is just too critical and hasn't yet learned another way. They do well skiing together but not so good with baseball, basketball and soccer.
I remember being stuffed into a baseball team for 6 years when I was younger.
The first 4 years were horrible. The last two were much better once I actually learned how to hit the ball.
My primary problem ended up being that I have absolutely no speed. I'm basically 100% endurance with only fair coordination. Not a good combo for anything but distance running. Skiing was ok for me, too.