hi Melissa,
I just saw your post and My DS6 in K, expressed similar thoughts last fall!
His were more "what is the point of even being alive? I might as well not be alive. I'm wasting my life. I'm sitting here at school all day learning nothing new and everyone acts so babyish. I could be at home doing what I want to do like inventing new things and learning new stuff and watching spongebob"
Note that he was well liked by classmates and had many close friends in class, but he was just so disappointed not to be learning. He also actually never used the word "dead"--- DS6 very spiritual little dude and he is aware that death, is a permanent state, people don't come back to this state of being--
Prior to this he had expressed boredom, wondering when the teacher was going to actually "teach" him...He was very unhappy at school, he thought the teacher felt he was "stupid" and that is why she wouldn't teach him. When he started sitting by himself at recess, having "think dreams" in which he says he would teach HIMSELF new things, and then started talking about such Existential type stuff? I pulled him.
I was done watching his downward spiral.
I put him in independent study thru the school district and that itself has been a huge learning experience (for me!) but I have finally got that all (mostly) figured out.
DS6 LOVES homeschool
He did the district 1st grade curric in 3mos, that was me making him go "slow"... now we are kinda just reviewing, reinforcing $$ time etc, I don't want him to far ahead as I want him to re-enter the public school at some point, with same age peers. (I think!)
*so YES, I think you should take what your child is saying, and realize that he is basically asking for help. He's trying to cope and understand what is happening with him. and he (may be) very unhappy. perhaps like mine, he had so much time to think while at school bored, that he began to question the point of it all, not odd for an adult, but throws us when a kid does it. doesn't mean that they are completely unhappy though- about their actual "life"- just the current situation. In my DS case it was kinder. Possibly too for yours as well. **This is what a Psychologist said in regard to my DS.
have you thought about a grade skip, highly gifted magnate, etc?
Good luck with all,
plz pass on what dr. tells you, if she does address it, I mean.... oh and yes, I'd make sure she was aware of it, be honest, tell her that you are concerned.