Ug, I suggest that you follow your gut on this one. I usually start with a long rehersal about all the times in the past when my judgement made a positive difference in his life, and remember how deeply you trust me...after a few minutes of that he says: "So you mean I HAVE too?" I think he'd rather take the direction then have to sit through the lecture.

Does he have a friend who is also trying out? Maybe that would sweeten the deal?

Best Wishes,
Grinity

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