Thanks Dottie and Mam. Since we are in a similar position to May, I am wondering what people think you should say to a four or five year old child before an IQ test. Would you tell him or her anything or just have him or her walk in and see what happens? We had one "sprung" on us at 3 (long story there) and she just went along merrily, but now that she is older and we know it is going to happen, what to say before the appointment. Thanks.