Okay I bought the books and am waiting for their delivery.... In a public restroom the other day, she comes in the stall with me and starts doing everything she knows I do not like. I hate public restrooms...and she gets on the floor, wipes her hands all over the place... so I'm sitting there...on the porcelain throne rendered completely powerless. (I think that has to be an ultimate for her!) (smile) I'm not willing to spank although I sure want to sometimes!