And you've given me an idea of a plan, for her to do this math testing and send him to school with different books and maybe the singapore workbook, just to have something to do, with a cover letter about how her son is getting physically ill he's so upset about school.
I like your plan, all the way up to the cover letter. I think that that sort of news needs to be given in person, otherwise it sends the extra message of 'I hate you, and have so little faith in you that I thought that if I told you my son is becoming physically ill that you'd just dismiss me and laugh it off. You are an unfeeling &!&*.'
I would do all the steps, get the materials prepared, and call the school for meeting talking about the physical symptoms. School very often do care alot about 'social/emotional' symptoms, and need to be notified right away.
Love and More Love,
Grinity
