Thanks everyone! Can you imagine trying to advocate for your child without the internet? It's not a wonder that it probably just didn't happen.

Great suggestions everyone! DS is working with the psychologist every week with goals to expose him to anxiety situations and help him start working through them. I'm still trying to capture the moment when there are opportunities to work through rigidity issues, slow progress there I think. I will definately start changing the way he does homework, that will be a great discussion.

I've been spending time at Wright's Law and it was really helpful. It seems to get a little fuzzy around the gifted aspect so I may need to look at the Civil Right website. LOL! My husband has to say 'Babe, carrot not sledgehammer'.

I really appreciate everyone's advice. Always solid-