Artana, You describe what happens to my son exactly. He locks up like a computer. Or he overflows when people keep putting stuff in his inbox faster than he can put it in his outbox.

I don't have that really at all. I live for changes in plans, strangely. I would get excited if my husband spontaneously said for us to get a quick bite to eat so we make it there on time. I am a plan-ahead type person, but I still love changes. My son is a plan-ahead type and does NOT like changes. But we teach him that changes are part of life, and I'm hoping he handles it better than other Aspies since we are so aware of it. We are his safety net also. Nan