I'm not 2e, but I feel the same way as you about not having the energy left to defend/explain/care enough. But I try to think of it in a positive light! My 2e son and my DH are my priorities: I use my energy for them. Other people who sap my energy are not worth it. My job is my 2nd priority and I've drawn the line with what I can handle. I sometimes feel guilty that I can't volunteer, or go to Mary Kay parties, or whatever...but I just think of my priorities and the guild eases somewhat. I don't have an answer for you, but I empathize. I got myself so worked up trying to do EVERYTHING that I had a bad car accident. That was my wakeup call to narrow my priorities and I do my best to stick to those. Nan
