Hi all,

Thanks you all for your kind words. It makes me feel better! And thanks for sharing your personal story, Kvmum, I'm glad and encouraged to hear how well you and your DD are doing.

Grinity, yes, the time machine analogy helps illustrate the futility of the "what if." There are SO many things I'd try and change, that it'd become a catastrophic, fiddlin', loopin' mess!

So we move forward. It's also easy fo me to forget at times that these DDs (DD 3.11 and DD 10) are two completely different people with different developments and interests, no matter the emotional trauma I've been through.

thanks again,


OliEli's Mom