My daughter is quite a bit younger (almost 6), but she has dyspraxia and for her an element of it is the "social planner disorder" nature of it. It takes many, many repetitions of certain situations for it to 'click' what is expected of her. We did have her evaluated at a younger age, but the doctor was adamant that it was not in fact Asperger's or anything on the spectrum, but the nature of her original diagnosis.