I can relate to much of your experience. Try to seek an pschologist with gifted experince. Go thru the Davidson web site and read as much as you can. I would read "Children are from heaven" this book helped me so much to be more understanding and have more patience. It sounds like you have a very sensitive child which is part of being gifted. The book relates to sensitivity but not so much gifted. There is lots of help here. Keep asking your questions. Hang in there. This is a challenge. HUG