We have the opposite problem: homeschooled kids are not allowed to use ANY public school services in our district. We live just across the street from the public school, and I'd love the opportunity to take him over for recess, art, music, PE and library time. Maybe more if they would do a better job of working with us. And extracurriculars as he gets older would be lovely to get access too, seeing as we pay taxes and all...
But there's no flexibility there. Some districts around here allow it. Ours is as rigid about that as they are about grade skipping, subject acceleration, etc. No exceptions. *sigh*
