[quote=gratified3I think I need to start working on my own denial . . . maybe I need to take vacation days to volunteer because I'm still just not getting it.
J [/quote]

Glad to hear it J. Admitting you have a problem is the first step ((humor alert)) Seriously, what else are vacation days for?

I am so cracking up at the idea of you reading yourself the riot act and putting yourself in 'time out' on this topic with DH until you do the first hand research. LOLOLOL!

((dancing happy feet!!) smile smile smile
Grinity

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