Yep, I think we may have it. Ex-h and I don't always see things eye to eye, but we certainly have always complimented each other's weaknesses. I think it's a pretty balanced letter and gets the point across firmly without sounding rude.
I tended to focus on the test scores because they're "on paper" -- I like it when things are official and "provable"! I know only so much stock can be set on tests, but they seem more like solid evidence to me. I was kind of skimming over the fact that she wasn't paying attention to the other test scores; it just seems that she *should* pay at least a little attention to them, I'd think ...
Anyway, I like that we finally will stop beating around the bush and just tell them what we want done. And if it doesn't, then we'll really start looking elsewhere.
