Thank you for the advice. I feel better knowing that I'm not the only one dealing with this type of behavior. It's heart breaking to watch him go through this and not know if what I'm doing is right. I'm going to let the new school know he's having issues related to being bullied. I may reach out to the pediatrician (who's a giftie and an alumn of the new school) for referrals.
Any suggested reading that can help with strategies would really help.
Again, everyone's advice has been really
helpful. Thank you!