That makes perfect sense! I think I just need to relax regarding meeting her needs. I have a 4 month old as well and feel like I'm not providing enough stimulation or activities for her because I'm so busy with the baby right now. She doesn't get much interaction with children her age either. Just today I took her to church to visit the nursery. From what I saw in each "nursery" or sunday school class for ages 1 to 3, it seems she's cognitively at the same level as a 3yr old, but the nursery at our church separates children by ages, so she ends up chatting away to children who give her blank stares or aren't really paying attention to what she's saying. Do you find that gifted children have a harder time making friends their age?