It's funny you say that. Today I was playing "ring around the rosey" with my daughter and we were trying to get the other kids in the nursery to learn how to hold hands, walk in a circle and sing the song. All she wanted to do was hug me after the song was done. She did share her crackers when I asked her to with the other kids, but she was clearly uncomfortable! Is your oldest the only child considered "gifted" or have you found that your other children are gifted as well?