Such good advice already, I only have one small thing to add.
In terms of being gifted with a learning disability, I can relate. Only, I hated public school and thought my children should go to private!!
What I've learned in this process of sending my kids to public school (ages 6 and 9) is that they do things a LOT differently than they did when we were kids. There have been some tremendous improvements in terms educating children with learning disabilities. There can be difficulties, but hopefully, you have a few years until you have to worry about it.
Simply by your experience, you'll know when something doesn't seem quite right, so that's a good thing.
Neato
