Inky, I think you probably noticed I posted earlier on the thread about sensitivities, which is something I think ds definitely has, but I think "filing" some of his concerns and questions and moods under 'oe' or 'extra sensitive guy' may have caused me to miss some more obvious signs and in trying to negotiate what seem like overblown reactions, I have overlooked the possibility (fact) that he really does feel just as bad as he says he feels.
That makes a lot of sense and is important for all of us who have children with OEs to hear.
P.S. You're very welcome.
