I would get and read Deborah Ruf's book, "Losing Our Minds." and also read her articles that you can find by googling her name. Miraca Gross is another author.
You could then contact an expert who works with exceptional kids who can help you (and her ) to understand what the future can hold for your child. This has helped most parents.
Your family's reaction to your daughter is nothing next to what awaits her in most school districts.
Helping her to find her way may be difficult. Many adults who started out PG will tell you that its not easy. On the other hand, her unique way of seeing the world will provide its own rewards.
I don't think its crazy to educate her. She is who she is regardless of what you try to do and will learn on her own in an unstructured way if you do not guide her. Some kids are tall, some are short, and some are very quick learners.
