here's a third approach: tell the teacher that when kids dont get enough chances to learn at the difficult end of their readiness level, then they often start feeling atrange and perfectioism becomes a problem. Suggest that she try to solve the boys problem by providing challenging enough work. This might have the nice side effect of you dd getting more work at her readiness level too,yes? good luck grinity

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