I have one who tests well and is a YS and one who does not test well, for whom I have not yet applied. I assume that her test anxiety will let up and then she can be a YS too.
If one of your children was an excellent tennis player and had the opportunity to play in the state championships, would you decline because your other child might be jeolous? Our children have different relative strengths and weaknesses, and as good parents we need to be alert an in tune with those, making opportunities when we can and helping each child achieve and be successful.
I echo the previous post - the resources available to you, the parent, are outstanding.
