Hello. My daughter is 3 years and 8 months old.

She is very stubborn, strong willed and bossy.

If she does not like a particular situation, person, group, etc, she expects everyone to conform to what she wants.

Examples:
At a tumbling class, her peers were hopping around in a circle to music. She refused to join in because she didn't like the music.

In a large group of people, if she does not know or like 1 or 2 people, she will avoid the entire group.

She seems rather quick to judge whether she likes someone or not. The "first impression" is either yes or no.

Is there a positive side to being stubborn and bossy? Please share your thoughts. THANKS.

Sharona