Congtats on such a positive meeting! I wonder if it might be a good idea to send a follow-up e-mail thanking her both for her willingness to meet with you, and at the same time gently reminding her of some of the accommodations you discussed.... "It is just so great that dd4 will have the opportunity to meet with a reading specialist three times per week to develop an individually appropriate reading program -dd4 just loves to read, and I know that she will be looking forward to that" - or whatever the plan was.... that way you both will have something to refer back to in case there are any bumps in the road come September. BTW, what state are you in?