I read it as she was trying to provide you a "balance" and safe view on your ds's development. Almost in line with what the others have said above... these are the negatives....so now we move on to the positive. I won't be too worried since he has S and S+.I don't think she wants you to do anything more at home re. academics with this statement
"She warned me not to push him ahead beyond his ability to function"
Although I will take it as a pinch of salt since there will also always be others who think that we are "pushing" our kids.

Last edited by S-T; 11/25/08 12:37 AM.