I’ll say that I don’t like that answer. It sounds like she’s blowing you off. I would restate that you’re asking for a meeting and demand, politely, that she give you a date.
I’ll leave it to others to get into what to take into that meeting. But I will say to check your state’s laws on IEPs. Even if there’s no gifted program, you might still be able to demand an evaluation from the school district and whatever accommodations come with that.
My state doesn’t do gifted until 2nd or 3rd but they’re still required to honor a request for an IEP from the day you enroll in kindergarten.
There’s usually a body of education law that specifically governs that stuff. What state are you in, if you don’t mind me asking?
