I came to the forum just now to vent about my very similar situation (although I've tried really hard already, and am a lot more fed up than you sound!), so am laughing a little to myself about finding your post.
I have no great advice. I've talked to teachers, to the principal, etc. But I think you're doing the right thing by meeting face-to-face and at least trying. My kids are just a little older than yours, currently 4th and 6th grades. DD10 has had a horrible year (at least in part bc I didn't go meet with the principal at the end of last year!), and I've got to go have a talk about 5th grade soon. Meeting with the teacher on Monday, then will go chat with the principal. Its always exhausting.
Hope the meeting goes (or went, by the time you see this!) well!!
Last edited by Pinecroft; 05/19/17 09:05 AM.
