Do they still ask you to give an example of your child working at least 2 grades above their age? I found that question to be difficult to answer, but it helped to just think of my kid's strengths and interests and pick something he was really into and describe how he was into it.

Keep in mind what seems typical to you likely isn't typical at all. After all, you see your kid frequently and she is probably primary person you go on when you think about ability by age. So that's inherently going to seem typical, at least to a certain extent.